York the Kiwi is nice. Quiet. Straightforward. Seemed on first meeting to be good friend material at least.  We were in a board game bar in SE London, playing Betrayal at the House on the Hill along with 4 others I had just met at this gaming meetup. One of the players was stuck in......

After many months of switching cities in true Digital Nomad form, I am now in London. These trips had taken the form of covid-safe tourism (Buenos Aires Feb-Apr 2022), short term networking trips (joined a San Francisco incubator in May), and logistical nightmares (collecting scattered belongings from across Europe). All along, I promised myself I......

When I lived in Medellin in 2016-2017, I met several men I liked. I kept them in my “maybe-dating limbo land.” When it comes to high-stakes / high-commitment stuff, sometimes I can be more comfortable keeping possibilities open, instead of addressing them. Maybe I’m afraid to find out an idea is a failure, whether for......

I must say, this may have been the best blind date I’ve ever had. And the first time I took a blind date out with a group of friends. Let alone the first blind date welcomed into a birthday celebration!  Nelson is 51. Another physics/math major 🙂 turned IT/engineering guy. An entrepreneur who’s had his......

I’m not going for nice and stable. Not a huge new learning, but a good reminder. When I was 26 I broke up with my long-term boyfriend. Till today, he was the kindest and smartest boyfriend I’ve ever had. He was funny, extremely caring, interested in the world, successful (while still having a life!), wanted......